Doctor Herpes

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Thanks, GUY.  I was very glad to see you were still here. ar

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – You mentioned that you were new here….I’m "0ld" here.  Though, I’ve been traveling on the road for the last two years – so a lot of people in this newsgroup won’t recognize me. *I* recognize you Arlyn.  Welcome back!  It’s good to see that "ar" appearing at the tail end of your good advice again! Hang in there -G

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Carry on, Carys, as H were not a factor. If you don’t last, let it be for the right reasons–same as if you do last, which I hope you do! Being single and with H is not as difficult as you think. You either meet other people with H or, like me, you meet someone who doesn’t care if you have it. Best of luck, Charlie – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Hey everyone.  I’m looking for a little support and some guidance.  I have had The Bug for about 2 months now.  I got HSV 1 oral to genital contact from my boyfriend of over a year.  I know it isn’t his fault and he didn’t mean to do it, so I don’t hold him responsible.  He feels responsible for me though.  I am afraid of what this is going to do to our relationship.  Has anyone else felt like since you got herpes from someone, you were just going to be with them for the rest of your lives?  I mean I love him very much.  I’m only 20 though and so is he, so who knows if we are going to last.  I just feel pressure to stay with him and I know he feels the same for staying with me. Things have been so good between us until now and I don’t want herpes to screw things up (more than it already has!) Thanks -Carys

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You mentioned that you were new here….I’m "0ld" here.  Though, I’ve been traveling on the road for the last two years – so a lot of people in this newsgroup won’t recognize me.

*I* recognize you Arlyn.  Welcome back!  It’s good to see that "ar" appearing at the tail end of your good advice again!   Hang in there -G

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Hi Aruca, You mentioned that you were new here….I’m "0ld" here.  Though, I’ve been traveling on the road for the last two years – so a lot of people in this newsgroup won’t recognize me. I’ve had herpes for close to 13 years.  I’ve been married for 11 1/2 years and not to the man who gave it to me.  I have not passed the virus to my husband. When I was first diagnosed, I was devastated.  My boyfriend and I had just broken up.  And I did feel that he owed me something.  I think that he had a lot of guilt – he didn’t know he had herpes.  But, it was definitely better that we not stay together just because of a virus. You and your boyfriend have some adjusting to do.  He will feel guilty and responsible and you may feel that he has done something to you that will make you undesirable to other men. This is not so. Over time, things will work themselves out and the virus will no longer be a big part of your life.  I hope that your relationship with him continues and is very happy – but not held together because of this virus. Take care, ar

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hey everyone.  I’m looking for a little support and some guidance.  I have had The Bug for about 2 months now.  I got HSV 1 oral to genital contact from my boyfriend of over a year.  I know it isn’t his fault and he didn’t mean to do it, so I don’t hold him responsible.  He feels responsible for me though. I am afraid of what this is going to do to our relationship.  Has anyone else felt like since you got herpes from someone, you were just going to be with them for the rest of your lives?  I mean I love him very much.  I’m only 20 though and so is he, so who knows if we are going to last.  I just feel pressure to stay with him and I know he feels the same for staying with me. Things have been so good between us until now and I don’t want herpes to screw things up (more than it already has!) Thanks -Carys

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Hi Aruca, You mentioned that you were new here….I’m "0ld" here.  Though, I’ve been traveling on the road for the last two years – so a lot of people in this newsgroup won’t recognize me. I recognized you, Arlyn!  Welcome back! (see, I have another kidlet in my sig…) — Take Care & God Bless, Mary mom to Lili (5-3-95) Jenny (9-21-97) and Jack (2-15-99) http://artoo.net/msamios

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Hi Mary.  I did notice the extra kid!  Congratulations! ar

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi Aruca, You mentioned that you were new here….I’m "0ld" here.  Though, I’ve been traveling on the road for the last two years – so a lot of people in this newsgroup won’t recognize me. I recognized you, Arlyn!  Welcome back! (see, I have another kidlet in my sig…) — Take Care & God Bless, Mary mom to Lili (5-3-95) Jenny (9-21-97) and Jack (2-15-99) http://artoo.net/msamios

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Hey everyone.  I’m looking for a little support and some guidance.  I have had The Bug for about 2 months now.  I got HSV 1 oral to genital contact from my boyfriend of over a year.  I know it isn’t his fault and he didn’t mean to do it, so I don’t hold him responsible.  He feels responsible for me though.  I am afraid of what this is going to do to our relationship.  Has anyone else felt like since you got herpes from someone, you were just going to be with them for the rest of your lives?  I mean I love him very much.  I’m only 20 though and so is he, so who knows if we are going to last.  I just feel pressure to stay with him and I know he feels the same for staying with me. Things have been so good between us until now and I don’t want herpes to screw things up (more than it already has!) Thanks -Carys

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